有自信与咄咄逼人是不同的。你可能尝试与某人表达一个观点，或者站在一个对你很重要的议题的立场上。
为了做到这事，牛牛，你可能会以激进的方式对谈、行动，这不一定是你自然的样貌。
你可能需要退后一点，并明确、不过分强硬表达你的观点。
如果你努力的更加巧妙，你更可能得到你所想要的。
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Being assertive is different from being aggressive. You may be trying to make a point with someone, or stand your ground on an issue that is very important to you. In an effort to do that, Taurus, you may be talking and acting in a very aggressive way, which is not necessarily a style that comes naturally to you. You may need to pull back just a little bit and make your point clear without being pushy about it. You are more likely to get exactly what you want if your efforts are more subtle.