life is simple but complex, life principles are simple but
hard to do. here are my views and opinoins and answers:
to me, what really matter ultimately are spiritual answers,
like love, good for good, evil for evil, and morality or ethics.
many people that are talented or gifted or creative have great
physical attractiveness, and they are intelligent and understanding,
but when it comes to spiritual traits, such as love, morality,...etc.,
they fail to achive their final destination.
why? because they did not think that carefully, like they get confused.
of course it is true that they are selfish or proud in a way, but
as the bible says"for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of god".
men are sinful by nature, a moderate approach is to inform them
that cheating or sinning does not work, and in order to do this,
you should ask them their initial mentality: do you really mean
what you say? make them realise that they are fighting a spiritual
warfare and they "must" accomplish their task, which is the ultimate
spiritual answer.
charity never faileth.