太阳盛德导师在今天的“全球网络共修课”上围绕着其中一个重点，就是“人情世故”融
通后，可以更容易适切地处理人际关系，化解大部分的红尘问题。“红尘扰心”的感叹和
无奈，很大程度来自于人际互动的顺畅与否。
许多人对于“世故”的刻板印象是，处世经验丰富而流于圆滑。往往对于“世故”的人产
生戒心。曾有至友提到她女婿非常世故，女儿逃不出他的手掌心。当时以媛提醒至友为何
不从另外的角度看?女婿因为心智成熟，做人处事面面俱到，做的决定都很到位，结果只
有对女儿或家庭有好处，为何一定要从她心目中认定的“世故”来看女婿?这样先入为主
的执念印入心灵深处成为data后，可能在未来不自觉地造成误解及后续一连串的错误，破
坏了两造关系，实在很傻。
导师提醒人际相处的每一个场景，都是一场戏，不要任性地消费掉没有把握的戏码，一旦
演错了不会再重来，因此需要步步为营。借由修为和修养去修心，让自己成长提升，化解
一些过去想不通的恩怨情仇。自己一旦提升了知见，想通了逻辑，觉知自己角色该有的言
行举止的范畴，就不会因为执念而一意孤行，或造成对方的损失。
导师说人世间的恩怨情仇导致的因果轮回，绝大多数是苦的。究其原因，是在人际交流时
，没有把握住自己有多少筹码足以支撑当时说出的话、提出的要求、期望的结果等等。没
有自知之明，在事前惦惦斤两，评估某一个决定有多少胜算，即使对方亲如夫妻或父子，
如果自己的要求有违人性、不合天心，就不会长久维持平衡和谐的关系而终至疏离。亲情
的运作和维系，仍然需要有一定的条件才能发挥作用，来圆满彼此的缘份，成就好的结果
。如何经由转念、营造，主动开创助缘去圆满关系，才是当务之急。
参东流
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一生的庸碌有什么
WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THE HUSTLE AND BUSTLE IN LIFE?
再回首似换得一壶酒
LOOKING BACK, LIFE IS LIKE A BOTTLE OF ALCOHOL
又把我推走 任凭大海终无留
DRIFTING IN THE BOUNDLESS OCEAN
这才畅饮感受 参东流
LATER REALIZING THAT LIFE CANNOT BE REVERSED LIKE THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE
EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
亮丽的人生是什么
WHAT IS A GLORIOUS LIFE?
是不是 终生做 饮陈酒
IS IT A RAT RACE WITH MORE DRINKING?
终究等白头 怨怼终结总还留
AT THE END, RESENTMENTS LEFT UNSETTLED
难免百般感慨 参东流
FEELING OF VICISSITUDES LIKE THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
我才懂得人生路由
I THEN REALIZE WHAT IS LIFE
看透什么叫做足够
AND UNDERSTAND WHAT IS ENOUGH
梦醒间似懂 繁华又何求
WAKING UP FROM MY DREAM AND ASKING MYSELF WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR IN LIFE
潇洒追梦领风骚参东流
CHASING MY DREAMS, TAKING CONTROL, UNDERSTANDING THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE
EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
参东流知否 猜透亦看透
THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST WILL NEVER RETURN, I FULLY UNDERSTAND AND
REALIZE
享好过终究要懂参东流
TO HAVE A GOOD LIFE,
WE MUST CHERISH IT BECAUSE LIFE IS LIKE A RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST THAT WILL
NEVER RETURN
亮丽的人生是什么
WHAT IS A GLORIOUS LIFE?
是不是 终生做 饮陈酒
IS IT A RAT RACE WITH MORE DRINKING?
终究等白头 怨怼终结总还留
AT THE END, RESENTMENTS LEFT UNSETTLED
难免百般感慨 参东流
FEELING OF VICISSITUDES LIKE THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
我才懂得人生路由
I THEN REALIZE WHAT IS LIFE
看透什么叫做足够
AND UNDERSTAND WHAT IS ENOUGH
梦醒间似懂 繁华又何求
WAKING UP FROM MY DREAM AND ASKING MYSELF WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR IN LIFE
潇洒追梦领风骚参东流
CHASING MY DREAMS, TAKING CONTROL, UNDERSTANDING THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE
EAST WILL NEVER RETURN
参东流知否 猜透亦看透
THE RIVER FLOWING TO THE EAST WILL NEVER RETURN, I FULLY UNDERSTAND AND
REALIZE
享好过终究要懂参东流
TO HAVE A GOOD LIFE, WE MUST CHERISH IT BECAUSE LIFE IS LIKE A RIVER FLOWING
TO THE EAST THAT WILL NEVER RETURN
勾画思绪参东流
CLEAR MY THOUGHTS AND CHERISH LIFE BECAUSE LIFE IS LIKE A RIVER FLOWING TO
THE EAST AND WILL NEVER RETURN
冬阳虽好又谁能留
THE WINTER SUN IS SO PRECIOUS, BUT NO ONE CAN HOLD ON TO IT FOREVER
在爱中共振，在感恩中连结。
打造精采生命，共创美好未来。