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楼主: slutty   2019-06-10 19:40:03
看完这篇文章完全佩服到五体投地,
能分辨出在网海中滑呀滑的究竟是想滑到什么,
已经很不简单,还亲身做出试验执行改变!Amazing!
完全百分之百认同格主最后提到的:
"True freedom is impossible without a mind made free by discipline.
想获得真正自由就必须高度自律。
我们想要改变习惯,莫过于想成为更好的自己,掌握更多的人生自主权。
透过有效的习惯改造指南,转化那些虚掷时光、百害无益的旧习,摆脱直觉式、本性式的
思考和行为模式,打造出高度自律的生活。懂得掌握习惯的规律并调整之,形塑自己理想
中的生活样貌,才能达到身心灵的真正自由。
习惯不会限制自由,而是创造了自由。事实上,没能掌握习惯的人往往拥有最少的自由。
—《原子习惯》"
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之前格主分享《垃圾场长大的自学人生》的读书心得,
节录剑桥教授和Tara对话的那段,也瞬间让我热泪盈眶,深受感动:
"童年的自卑情节让 Tara 认为这些宏伟的事物都闪耀着光芒,除了她自己。
但教授回应她的这段激励和肯定,让我反复听了好多回:
You must stop yourself from thinking like that. You are not fool's gold,
shining only under a particular light. Whomever you become,whatever you make
yourself into, that is who you always were. It was always inyou. Not in
Cambridge. In you. You are gold. And returning to BYU, or even to that
mountain you came from, will not change who you are. It may change how others
see you, it may even change how you see yourself - even gold appears dull in
some lighting - but that is the illusion. And it always was.
妳必须停止那么想,妳不是只有在特定光线下才会发光的假黄金。无论妳成为谁,无论妳
转变成什么,妳就是妳。真实的妳就在妳的内心,而不是在剑桥,妳就是货真价实的黄金
。无论妳回到杨百翰大学或故乡的山区,也不会改变妳是谁。这可能改变别人怎么看妳,
也可能改变妳怎么看自己。真金即使在特定的光线下,也可能显得暗淡无光,但这只是假
象。"
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