It might seem like an easier option to let someone else make a big
decision for you because you don't know what to do. You could easily leave
it up to another person, then relax and walk away from it. That could
backfire on you, though, dear Moonchild. You have everything you need to
make the best choice for yourself - and what's more, you are deeply
invested in it, whereas someone else will not be. They aren't walking in
your shoes and may not understand what will make you truly happy. Decide
for yourself.
让别人为你做出某个重大决定也许似乎是比较简单的选择，因为你不知道该怎么办。
你可以轻易地把决策权交给其他人，然后放轻松，并且一走了之。可是那或许会反噬
你自己，亲爱的月之子。你拥有做出最适合自己的选择所需要的一切——除此之外，
你对此投入了庞大的心血，但是其他人并非如此。他没有设身处地的为你着想，而且
可能不了解会让你真心感到快乐的是什么。你自己做决定就好。

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