当一个人原谅了曾经伤害自己的人,这并不代表他们就此放过对方所犯的错误。
这意味着他们接受了人类本就不完美,会犯错的事实。
选择原谅的人也可能认为,或许还有一些自己不知道的背景,可以解释事情的发生,即便
这并不能完全使错误变得可以被接受。
亲爱的孩子,你在生活中的许多领域都是个完美主义者,因此你可能很难理解这个概念。
你相信错就是错。
然而,如果你能试着接受这样的原谅观点,你就能将曾经的伤痛放下,从中走出来。
本周,你或许会有这样的机会,而当你做到时,会感受到一种明显的自由与释放感。
本周也可能带给你一波喜悦,当你遇到的人回应了你对他们的情感,或者认同了你对自己
的深刻信念。
这将会是个美好的时刻。
到了周末,你可能会得到一个答案,虽然这并不是你所期待的,但它实际上能引导你走上
一条比你原本走的路更好的道路。
When a person forgives someone who has wronged them, it does not mean they let
them off the hook for whatever they did wrong. It means they accept that huma
n beings are not perfect, and they make mistakes. Someone who forgives might a
lso assume that there are things they don't know that might explain what happe
ned, even if it doesn't make it okay. You are a purist in many areas of life,
dear Cancer, and you may have a hard time grasping this concept. You believe t
hat wrong is wrong. However, if you can try to accept this explanation of forg
iveness, you can put a hurt behind you and walk away from it. This week, you m
ay have the chance to do that, and when you do, there will be a palpable feeli
ng of freedom and relief. This week may also bring you a surge of joy when som
eone you meet either reciprocates your feelings for them or validates somethin
g you believe deeply about yourself. This will be a wonderful moment. By the w
eekend, an answer that comes to you may not be what you were hoping for, but i
t can actually lead you down a significantly better path than the one you have
been traveling.