You may be blaming yourself for something now, Cancer, and feeling a lot
of regret and guilt over it too. In fact, this issue may be on your mind a
lot as you struggle to let go of what might have been. While you may have
played a role in what occurred, you weren't the only one involved, and the
blame is not yours alone to carry. The other party played a part too. It
is impossible to know what might have occurred if you - or if the other
party - had done something differently. It takes two to tango. Recognize
this, and free yourself of doubt.
你现在可能为了某些事情而自责不已，巨蟹，并且感到非常后悔与愧疚。事实上，这
件事也许在你心头盘绕许久，而你很挣扎到底要不要让一切随风而逝。你可能是当事
人，但你不是唯一一个当事人，你不必独自承担这些责任，其他人也有责任。你们不
可能知道如果当初用不同的方式处理的话，现在事情会变成怎么样。你要知道跳探戈
是两个人的事，所以不要再质疑自己了。