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kl25082 (è²)
2018-03-29 16:07:22You may be thinking about giving in to a compromise now, Moonchild,
because there is a conflicted situation that you want to end. But you may
be considering giving up more than your fair share as a way to end this
situation quickly. While that might make the other person happy - they
are, after all, giving up far less - this won't satisfy you for very long.
You have more leverage than you realize. Be patient and come up with a
plan that is more equitable. In the long run you will be glad that you
did.
你现在可能在考虑要妥协,月之子,因为你想要结束那个争执的场面。但是你或许也
在考虑放弃更多原本你拥有的,这样才能快点解决。这样做可能会让其他人高兴—毕
竟他们放弃的比较少,当然高兴啊—可是你不会因此而满意太久的。你比自己认为的
还要有影响力,要有耐心,并且准备好一个更公平、公正的计画,长久来看,你会庆
幸自己这样做的。