There is more than one kind of fear, Moonchild. If you're camping in the
woods and a bear suddenly appears, fear may cause you to move cautiously out
of the bear's reach. That's useful fear. Then there is the kind of fear you
are feeling about an upcoming meeting or gathering. You may be imagining that
everything will go wrong. You may be afraid that you will wind up in a
conflicted situation. That's useless fear because you have control not only
over what will happen, but over how you react to it. Don't worry.